And I can tell you right now that little het vs. yaoi wank that's going on doesn't spread to my community. I am very antibashing. If you don't like a character, pairing, or anime, you keep it behind your teeth or you say it nicely. And you only get one warning about the bashing. I don't put up with that crap.
But my challenge is Roy/Ed first time, with Roy thinking about the why. The details are up on my community.